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Helping children greive.?
i am a 17 year old and yeaterday one of my close friends died in a car crash heading eastbound on the 60 freeway, where she was threw from her car and then got crushed by her vehicle leaving behind a husband, a 6year old son, and an 8 year old daughter.
i have babysat her children many times this past year and she is like a second mother to me and its safe to say that i pretty much know her childrens likes and dislikes. but i dont know how to console these two young children or what to do to help them through their greiving process who are experiencing the death of their mother differently, the youngest has gone into depression mode & isnt saying much but “wheres mommy” and the oldest is just destraught and is nonstop crying.
what can i say, do, give, bring, help or anything to help these children through their grievin process because i really wanna bring comfort& peace of mind to them.
PLEASE HELP!
You really should take the lead of the children’s remaining parent, and the rest of their family. Do not make any statements about where their mother is (as in, in heaven or just gone) without knowing what the family believes and wants the children to understand. Be their friend. Be there for them. But do not take on the role of helping them grieve. Leave that to the experts.
That said, I will add in what I normally tell parents and other concerned adults. Part of my job involves consulting with families in the ICUs at my hospital to give advice on talking to children about serious illness and or death. Here are some of the things to keep in mind.
Avoid euphamisms- kids get easily confused by “Mommy went to sleep” and “Mommy is gone.” They need concrete words and they need explanations of words. At eight, a child has a base understanding of death and the permanence, but can still struggle with that. At six, a child is really just beginning to get the permanence of death. The six year old in particular may need to be reminded that death is final. Mommy cannot breathe anymore. Mommy cannot eat or sleep or play anymore. Her body doesn’t work anymore, and there’s no way to make her body better. Some families then like to say that her spirit went to heaven, if that’s what they believe.
NEVER say things like “It’s God’s plan” or “It was her time.” These are confusing even for adults, and cause conflicting feelings in kids and adults. The kids don’t care if it was God’s plan or their mother’s time to go. All they know is that she’s gone and never coming back, and that’s just not fair.
Kids this age often need to know what will happen now. Who will take care of them? They need to feel secure, loved, and taken care of, but they also may question the specifics. Who will take us to school? Who will cook dinner? They need assurrance that they will be cared for.
It’s completely normal for kids to flip flop with emotion and not always appear to be mourning. They may be crying one minute and ready to play the next. A LOT comes out through play, and they may play death, or funeral, or anything that helps them to gain some control and understanding of the situation. This is often alarming for adults, but it’s developmentally appropriate and often necessary.
One thing you might be able to do- IF THE FATHER/FAMILY GIVES THE OKAY- is to do some legacy building with them. Scrapbooking pictures and memories, planting a tree, making a memory box are all ways for kids (and adults!) to do something.
That all said, please do not take this on as your job to help them grieve. They will grieve no matter what, and it won’t be a neat or orderly process. They will grieve for life. They will grieve anew with each developmental stage. You can be there for them to listen to them if they want someone to talk to. You can distract them and help them have fun. But you’re not a trained counselor or grief expert, and are not qualified to help them grieve.
It will probably help you to learn more about what kids this age often feel and do when grieving. Hospicenet.org is a fantastic resource that I use frequently. This link goes to an article that details different developmental stages’ understandings about grief and how they cope. http://www.hospicenet.org/html/understand.html The rest of the website is excellent, as well. www.hospiceneet.org
ETA: In response to Crystal’s answer… please do not tell them their mom is in a better place. That’s not comforting and can upset kids and adults. Do not buy them tons of gifts. They’ll know that you’re buying them gifts because something is wrong. Kids are smart. Something small isn’t bad, but don’t just throw gifts at them.